Tuesday, January 05, 2010

My Mom's 50th Surprise B-day Party!

I headed home to Nebraska on Dec. 15th. The idea was for me to rent a car and drive to Lincoln, where I would meet my mom, drop off the rental car and then ride the rest of the way home with her...well, long story short, the morning I went to pick up the rental car they tried giving me a car that isn't much of a step up from a compact (even though I specified what I needed when I booked the car, and again when I confirmed reservations), well all my stuff was not gonna fit in the 'only' car they had left...so I ended up driving my own car to Lincoln and leaving it at Shane's sister house (thanks Janice!) Shane would then head home the following weekend.
I wanted to go home earlier so I could attend my Aunt T's wedding on the 17th...and be able to prep for my mom's surprise b-day party on the 20th (but she of course didn't know that!)

My siblings and I had been planing a surprise 50th birthday party for my mom for a few months. It was pretty low key...we invited family and close friends, served lunch and dessert and had my mom open loads of gifts!

Our 'theme' was 50 gifts for her 50th birthday...to 'top' the gifts off was a money tree made from 50 $1.00 bills (creative credit is due to my sister, Britni and hubby, Brad) Britni also wrote a nice poem, which I printed out as a card for us to all sign.

So how did we surprise her?
It was Sunday, so my mom headed to church...Emma and I stayed home. While she was away at church, Jared and his crew, along with Brit and her family all showed up and we went to work putting the house in order, setting up the gift table and prepping the food. We couldn't do a whole lot because we didn't want my mom to see anything out of the ordinary when she came home. We had dropped off Jared and Britni's vehicles up to my dad's shop, so my mom had no clue anyone was home except me and Emma, and my dad.

Miss Haley Mae hanging out while the adults ran around like crazy to get stuff done!

BIL Brad mixing dip


Luke

We had everyone hide in my mom's bedroom, which is usually the first place she comes into to take off her shoes, etc when she gets home from church. SIL Missy had changed Jacob's very stinky diaper over a half hour before in there and it still stunk, so it made it very interesting and comical!!! We kept watch for my mom, and when she pulled into the driveway, all ran into the bedroom while my brother stayed out to make sure when she got out of the suburban...he watched and watched and she didn't get out (we find out later she was listening to the rest of a song on the radio, while the rest of us could hardly contain our excitement!!!) When she came in the door, I yelled 'we are in here' (forgetting to specify the bedroom) so she instead thinks I am calling from the living room and walks in there where we had the gift table already set up, as soon as she sees that she walks to the bedroom saying 'who's in there' and opens the door and we all yell 'surprise' and 'happy birthday'!

Below is her face when she saw us!


Needless to say she was SHOCKED! It was so much fun to see her so surprised!
She was blown away to see all her family in that room!



After a round of hugs from everyone, we explained to her what was going on...that we had the entire extended family coming, along with her close friends for lunch and dessert. I think she really enjoyed having a family gathering that she didn't have to think about the food and cleaning!



My mom, w/ friends Melaine, Kris, Tena, Stef, granddaughter Zoe, and my gramma Joyce

my gramma Cena and Emma

my gramma Joyce, aunt Sara, Zoe and Emma

grandpa Dave

SIL Missy and Jacob

my mom and her 50 gifts


brother Jared and baby Abby

my mom opening a gift...a farmer's almanac from the year she was born!


Miss Haley Mae

Jared, baby Abby, Britni, Jarv (newest member of our family, my Aunt T's new hubby), close family friend, Codi O'Brien

my mom had plenty of 'help' opening her gifts

my beautiful sister, Britni

my cousin, Ashton and Emma



my grandpa Bud taking a nap during the festivities


Nathan

Zoe and Matthew w/ their Nana

my mom and her sisters
Becky, my mom, Sara, Teresa

and a funny pic of them!

Becky, my mom, Sara, Teresa and Gramma Cena

my mom and me


Jared, me, my mom, and Britni

Jared, me, my mom, Britni, my dad

Britni, Jared and I

me and Zoe Anne

Miss Haley Mae again

my cousin Tracy, her daughter, Taya, Emma and I

Haley and Zoe sitting on Nana's lap

Missy Taya Jo

I felt very happy with everything we were able to pull off, and couldn't have done it with out everyone's help! I think my mom felt very loved and special...which she is! She means the world to her kids and grandkids and we love her dearly!

Catching Up...

I am working on getting pictures on the blog from before Christmas and during our vacation in Nebraska during Christmas...here are ones that were taken in early December...







Emma checking out the pretty snow falling


Emma feeding herself some yogurt...oh, what a mess it makes!



Emma is gonna love playing dress up as she gets older...this kid is always wearing something on her head!





Emma just chilling in her sled, reading a book!



Emma also loves to fill up bags or purses and carry them around...she is ALL girl!

Monday, December 14, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KATIE!

Happy birthday to our loving wife and mommy!

Love,
Shane and Emma

Tuesday, December 08, 2009

A Hard Goodbye...

Today I had to say a hard and sad goodbye to my good ole' buddy, Chase. Chase was our family pet I got the summer between 5th and 6th grade. He was 13+ years, and ready to go. I will miss him. I had to say goodbye via webcam. I so wish I could have been there with him when he went. Here are a few pictures to remember him by.

Chase L.J. Blackman
April 3rd, 1996 to December 8th, 2009

Bella and Chase hanging out

Chase and my mom



Chase, thanks for the great years of your unconditional love and companionship. I pray you had a good life and are chasing rabbits now! You are loved and will be missed!

May I Go Now?

May I go now?
Do you think the time is right?
May I say goodbye to pain filled days
and endless lonely nights?
I've lived my life and done my best,
an example tried to be.
So can I take that step beyond
and set my spirit free?

I didn't want to go at first,
I fought with all my might.
But something seems to draw me now
to a warm and loving light.
I want to go
I really do.
It's difficult to stay.

But I will try as best I can
to live just one more day.
To give you time to care for me
and share your love and fears.
I know you're sad and afraid,
because I see your tears.

I'll not be far,
I promise that, and hope you'll always know
that my spirit will be close to you
wherever you may go.
Thank you so for loving me.
You know I love you too,
that's why it's hard to say goodbye
and end this life with you.

So hold me now just one more time
and let me hear you say,
because you care so much for me,
you'll let me go today
Susan A. Jackson

PUT ME TO REST

Time to let me go my friend,
Because my life no-one can mend,
It’s better to let me go this way,
Than watch me suffer night and day.

I'm happy to go, my time has come,
My quality of life is no longer fun,
I’ve been so ill, so it’s not a bad thing,
To let me go forever resting.

Stay with me till I drift away,
Fast asleep forever I pray,
To relieve me from suffering and pain,
What more can I ask from my best friend.

Don't be sad, I'll be free from pain,
Never to be ill ever again,
I know you'll miss me being there,
But all the memories you have to share.

Thank you for being my best friend,
And all my needs that you did tend,
Try not to be sad, try not to cry,
Now is the time to say goodbye
Put me to rest.